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*illibeth
writes:I want my best friend and have him around for three months.Ok, this is kinda a follow up to my last question. I recently split with my bf after being with him for six months, despite liking one my best male friends for much, much longer. My best friend is incredibly flirty with me, has often hinted that there's something more than friendship between us and my other close friends in our friendship group say they think the same.Trouble is, we go to different Universities and he currently has a gf. He is still being the same with me, although I'm trying to ignore it due to his having a gf, but its increasingly hard considering I like him so much.It was easier during term time when we weren't around each other all the time, but now we're home for the summer break, a good few months, and it seems like we both don't know what to do. Any opinions/advice welcomed gratefully!Thanks!
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reader, Ivana  +, writes (24 June 2007):
 I am sure he likes you but I am not sure he loves you.I think you should talk with him and don't tell him that you love him ask him why he is acting that way.If he tells you he likes you tell him you likes him too.After that it is only question of time when you will be together?Please see my question and answer it because I have the same problem with my friend!
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reader, neonpinkngooey  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 I know you really like this guy, but please don't get involved. He has a girlfriend already. I'm sure you wouldn't like it if someone stole your boyfriend away. For now, his relationship doesn't seem to be ending soon, especially if they go to the same university. Try to just be friends with him, and try not to flirt with him so much anymore. If he wants you that bad, he will break it off with his girlfriend. Just let things take its course, and try not to interfere or else you will look like a homewrecker! Also, if you go to school far away from each other, do you think your relationship would last throughout the school year, or would it just be a summer fling? If it is the latter, would you really be willing to risk your friendship?
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