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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: i'm 15 and i know some of you may think im too young to have a problem like this but...I have a problem and its starting to make me mad... i have a best friend who i feel flirts with my boyfriend.. she knew him longer than me, and she says she doesn't like him but the way she acts pisses me off, she plays with him, she even comes outside wearing things that show off her body (which is better than mine)... They live on the same block and they hang out a lot, cause they're best friends, but i hate the way she acts it makes me jealous and uncomfortable... sometimes i even think that she secretly likes him... she goes out with this other boy but its like she flirts with my boyfriend too much and it pisses me off...
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reader, that's_me_tj +, writes (4 June 2011):
Well it could be a problem of two sides, either YOU are getting a bit jealous or getting an inferiority complex to your friend OR SHE is trying to flirt with your guy. I suggest, you try talking to her and tell her how you feel and don't make it sound like you're accusing her... Probably even ask your guy to avoid her cuz you find it highly uncomfortable when she is around him. Also, your guy could probably be encouraging her behaviour. And maybe, she just likes him as a friend... So try asking a couple of close trusted people how does it look when she is around him and inspect her behaviour not as you, but as a stranger... Then if you still dislike it, GO 'N' YELL AT THAT B*TCH'S FACE TO GET HER EYES (AND HANDS) OFF YOUR BOYFRIEND!!
But if your boyfriend truly loves you, it shouldn't matter even if Angelina Jolie flirted with him cuz he would never leave you for anything in the world!!
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reader, ManAfterChrist +, writes (4 June 2011):
So what's the question?
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