A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend took an ex girlfriend home to his place last Saturday night after the pubshe claimed to be hassled by some other bloke and asked could she go back to his for a whilethey chatted apparently then she asked if she could crash, he told her 'go on up!' She went into our bedroom, he had to sleep in the spare roomhe told me this when I got back Sunday, I totally believe nothing happened but I cannot help feeling he betrayed me by bringing her back in the first place.he says he did nothing wrong and i should trust him moreAm I being unreasonable?ps My boyfriend is from Iran and 13 years older than me separated 4 years with 4 children I am 35, just thought I should establish we are not teenagers
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reader, Just another girl +, writes (23 January 2008):
wow, I actually posted this question last night annonymously and read the replies which were the total opposite of the ones here
amazing!
thanks for your comments
they all help
for the record I don;t think I am being unreasonable to be upset as another woman should not have had access to our bed but he is a good man a very good man
thanks
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 I think you are being a little unreasonable. For a start, he told you, that straight away suggests he has nothing to hide.
Also, I have let an ex stay over when she was locked out of her house, and although my girlfriend at the time initial "went beserk" when I told her, she understood it was just a kind gesture, as I would do for any friend.
Just try and take it as a sign that your boyfriend is a good man :D
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reader, cld91681  +, writes (23 January 2008):
Well it is good to have trust in a relationship but I do think that he went a little to far by allowing her to spend the night I can see why you would be upset. I would feel betrayed if my boyfriend did that to me but then again he could have never told you that. So I would believe him but just make sure it doesn't happen again.
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