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writes:my boyfriend and i are always fooling around. but i can never seem to get him to cum when i am just giving him a handjob. if i am not doing anything he will grab my hand and go faster and he'll tell me to go faster but then my arm just gets tired. is there any special tricks that i can use to keep my arms from falling off? recently i told him to stop masturbating for a while to see if it works. but we havent had time to be alone and if i do it under the covers or something he says that he is going to but i dont know if he really would have cum if he could have at the place we were at.
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reader, Lucy1992  +, writes (13 July 2012):
Hey
I have the same problem with my boyfriend. I thought I was the only one and I thought it was because I broke my arm a while back and I haven't had time to build up my muscles again. It's. Been a couple months now and my boyfriend says I'm getting better
We tried special lube
I read up on a couple different thinks
And I started giving him more blowjobs instead
All of those have helped but I still can't get it
So if anyone can give more advise that would be awesome
Sorry for jacking your post didn't mean any offence
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (22 February 2007):
 This update made me so happy. Congratulations!!!
You made me smile. Hooray for you!
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for all your advice. and i actually got him to cum for the first time tonight
lol
its been five months since we started dating
but as i was doing it i could hear him start like
not breathing and i just kept telling myself YOUR GETTING TONED ARMS
lol
it worked
thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007): so kneel before him. Lick or put spit on your hand from time to time. Stroke him up and as you come down twist your hand around and go down. Also try gently twisting around as you go up and have your palm or fingers go over the top of his penis. Find a sensitive spot on his shaft and suck or lick there and slowly twist your hand around his base.
Use lotion to change up the texture or try a lubricant that heats up with friction.
Start off with foreplay too. Rub your body on him. Use your whole torso, then flip over and lie on your back and try your back and butt. Flip over again and use your torso and breasts and then try hand.
Good luck.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (20 February 2007):
Hey sweetness,
I too, have this problem. I know how you feel. However, when I get super tired, my boyfriend takes over and does it himself for a little bit while my arm gets rest. Or, I don't know if you guys are doing the oral sex thing yet, but if you switch between oral and manual it gives you arm some time to rest. Swapping hands works... or stopping and just kissing him for awhile, that works...
If you stop, distract him with something else so that the moment isn't lost.
Good luck, girl! I feel your pain.
xxIndia
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reader, cd206  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 Hm you're quite young so I'm guessing you haven't given amny handjobs or perhaps you just haven't given one for a while before meeting your new guy. You could try swapping hands, slowing down (apparently to tease him but giving yourself a handy rest in the process) or resting your elbow on something like the bed when you're giving one. Either way don't stress about it. We all get sore arms. Think of the toned upper arm. Helps me get through the discomfort.
CD
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