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writes: I had a bf who had an unresolved issue with his ex and feelings for his ex and really cant stand her life without him. I broke up with him for him to decide who he wants to be with in his life so i did give him an ultimatum wether to stay with his ex or to end up everything with them and to be with me... after 4days of our break up, he break the issue with me that they had already talked everthing bout them and decided to end up everthing.He wanted us to start all over again and hes telling me that if he chooses not to be with me its gonna be a big loss in his part..can i ask him for a proof if its really true? in what way and how? please help
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reader, cherri sparkle  +, writes (20 February 2007):
hii feel for you on this one but you have to decide if after thet you are able to trust him when he says that hes in it 100 per cent. dealing with ex issues are always hard and when people rush into something else too soon it can often cause problems in the newly formed relationship. i think you should take your time with this one and see how it goes sometimes people can feel that they have made a mistake but most of the time its just that they are becoming attached to this new person which is scary because its the unknown talk to him make sure hes sure about his feelings cos u dont wanna be wasting your time. but then just move on with it every relationship is a risk in its own right but take it from experience fretting about his past will make him question himself when really its not worth it
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