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anonymous
writes:im really suffering because it may sound stupid but im madly in love with my ex who i havnt even spoke to or seen for 2 years but its getting me so down we were so close and went through a rough break up wich shocked every one please give me advice i need to know how to forget him or how to get back in contact with him ?
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reader, BlueBag +, writes (23 April 2010):
 Its been 2 years now, he obviously doesn't want you back otherwise he would have tried to contact you by now.The best thing for you to do is move on, try to meet new people, go out with your friends, start a new hobby! You're too young to be wasting your time thinking about what could have been, chances are you'll have many more boyfriends before you truely find someone you'd like to spend the rest of your life with.As soon as the right person comes along you'll be wondering why you were so upset about this break-up and regret wasting your time thinking about him! Be happy! Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010): I think most likely, what you need is closure. Sometimes we still think about a past lover, not because they were significant to us, but because we never got to say everything we needed to say to them. I think you should be brave and get back in contact with him and tell him all that you need to say.Be prepared....he may not want to hear it. You may get a bad response. That does not mean that you are wrong for feeling the way you do, he may not be ready to deal with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010): Hiya hun,
i understand what its like to want some one and not have them, but to be quite honest with you if its been 2 years and you still haven't gotton over him then its clear that you still want to be with him.
normally i would suggest (no contact) but because its been 2 years i think that would be useless now.....(its a bit rich coming from because i never listen to what people suggest i do)
maybe you should try sending him a text or an email or something asking him to see you.
you dont have anything too loose babe you've coped for the past 2 years.
Good Luck xxxxxxxx
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