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writes:How do you give a blowjob?People say "suck me off" but then it's called a "blow job". What excatly do you do!? Suck or blow? And do most people use a condom when giving one? Does this turn a guy off? Does it taste bad doing it without a condom, or is it not a big deal?Is it ok to do it without a condom if you are 100% that this guy has no STD's or nothing nasty?How excatly do you go about it and what else do you do while sucking/blowing?Is it possible to give a bad one?Thanks in advance! :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008): I have to say that I have been complemented numerous times on giving the best bj's. think because I am not afraid to do whatever it takes to make him moan with pleasure. Two things being, no condom and swallowing is a big thing. Oh, they enjoy it either way, but I have always been told that a man loves it most when he gets to cum in your mouth. It's really not that bad. A trick is to keep something to drink near by that way once you swallow take a drink to wash the taste away. Of course if you are giving road head there is not always a drink nearby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007): Some of the ladies here seem to be of the opinion that he'll enjoy you caressing his balls. Personally that's a BIG no no. I absolutely hate it! There's no quicker way to remove my erection - other than the deployment of teeth on my 'Copper's Helmet'!
One other thing - use plenty of saliva otherwise it'll grate and might not be at all pleasant for him if you give him a 'dry' one.
Before you get down to it, it's a very good idea to make sure he's washed the thing, and that you've washed yours - a shower together is a pretty acceptable way of ensuring this - because he might want to return the favour and there's nothing worse than a smelly box that hasn't seen a flannel for a few days!
And like Anonymous says - a bad blowjob is better than no blowjob!
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007): Hi there, ok, Ive had bj's from several girls. and yes it is possible to give a bad one but the chances of that are low (and usually would mean you used your teeth OR were not very enthusiastic about giving it in the first place). And...i wont lie, even a bad bj is better than no bj. Practice makes perfect! Really though, dont stress it.oh and ps... i hate it when my balls are touched! they are too sensitive to be handled in that manner. but every guy is different...learn from his cue's.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (22 September 2007):
 Watch the movie "white chicks" they have the answer. lol Some questions just don't have answers. That's the same as saying why do they call it eating a girl out when you only lick. I tried to answer the same question about what it's called when I was your age, 20 years ago, and still haven't an answer.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (22 September 2007):
 well first of all do check that the guy is safe,as it is better if you dont use a condom. you dont blow at all you suck, and dont use your teeth!!!dont stress about putting the whole penis in your mouth as this can be uncomfortable.the balls are also sensitive so massaging these lightly can feel really good for him.if you use your tongue and roll it around the tip this is also good as it is sensitve up there.as for the taste its not that bad and you dont have to swallow. i hope this helped hun good luck and enjoy!! PS it doesnt hurt to moan a little while doing it!! xxxx
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (22 September 2007):
 like leanne said, theres no blowing involved - its sucking and moving your mouth up and down. you could also try doing it so your mouth is kind of sideways on the penis .. like so the tip isnt actually in your mouth but your still sucking the shaft (does that make sense?) just for some variation. i think most men prefer it without a condom because they can feel the warmth and wetness of your mouth but honestly in general, they'll take whatever they can get lol.trace small circles over the head with your tongue or try flicking your tongue over the tip or pushing your tongue on it - as if you were trying to insert it so to speak.it is possible to give bad head - and most times it involves using teeth. so try to keep them out the way by covering your bottom teeth with your tongue and your top with your top lip.but really you cant go too far wrong, try to keep your hair out the way so he can watch you, keep your teeth out the way, give it plenty of tongue action, and throw in the occassional sex moan. and if all else fails - spit on it! i swear he will love it.the taste: the penis isnt a big deal but as for the come - i wont lie. its not nice. but you dont have to taste it you can stop just before he comes and finish it another way or put a condom on him right before he comes.brookexx
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (22 September 2007):
 okay, i have given many bj's (to the same guy!) and never used a condom. in my experience, a guy gets excited at the thought of receiving head so he won't complain.
you don't really blow, it's more sucking and as you do, just gently move your mouth up and down his penis. the tip of the penis is the most sensitive part and i you move your tongue in a circular movement whilst moving, he'll be speachless!! if you gently caress his balls aswel, you'll be appreciater no end!!
and the taste isn't that bad, it's not the best taste in the world but you could always add a bit of chocolate sauce!!
good luck, hope i've helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007): How do you give a blowjob you say?1. you don't blow, you suck.. tip- dont suck hard, it can hurt them.2. I would say that most people don't use a condom when giving one as it takes away allot of the pleasure when using one and it is harder for them to cum.3. I would say that it doesn't taste that bad, it tastes a bit like liquidy salt, but milder.4.yes it is okay to give a blow job without a condom if you know 100% that they are clean of STDs etc.5. I will give you some very good tips which i found worked very well while giving head.. -first things first, you have to put your lips round their penis and your hand around it also..-then you do an up and down motion with your mouth and hand moving at the same speed and rhythm-when you give him a blowey, consentrate mostly on the end of his dick as this is the most sensative part (you can do this by licking the tip).-it is also a good thing to deep throat (push the dick as far down your throat as you can without making yourself throw up!!)-use your teeth a little bit but VERY gently!!..when you come back up from your up and down motion.-play with his balls gently as well at some point.6. Make sure you tell them to let you know when they are about to come in your mouth as then you may or may not want to swallow it. If you chose to spit, heres a tip, dont spit it on them.7. dont take your mouth off his dick when he is ejaculating in your mouth because it will hit you in the face.. trust me, been ther!! lol8. Yes it is possible to give a bad one, but hopefully with the tips i have just given you you wont do, but most first timers dont get the hang of it until around the fourth time and if i where you i would let them know it is your first time giving one as they will be expecting something amazing otherwise.anyway.. GOOD LUCK!! xD
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reader, superbunny +, writes (21 September 2007):
 To start with - suck, not blow!The whole condom issue is a matter of personal preference. Some people dislike the taste of semen, or find it more hygenic to use a condom - this is perfectly fine. But it is just as fine to do it without a condom too.Personally, I wouldn't say it "tastes bad" without a condom.Everyone has their own technique.. I guess practise makes perfect really! I've been told that some blow jobs are better than others... just tease with your tounge and lips, have some fun and I'm sure you'll be fine - you can soon tell if he likes something by the noises he makes! :]I hope this has helped. :] x
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