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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Question for the married men:What is the difference in how you treated your wife when she was your serious girlfriend/fiance - and when she became your wife?I'm asking because I'm in a monogamous relationship for 6 months. We both say we love each other, etc, but I'm just curious - what changes for a guy? I mean, right now, he is not supposed to be having sex with other women? But is there more flirting that goes on before and that stops after?I never understood the idea of ripping up your "little black book" because once I'm in a committed relationship;, I treat the guy like my husband anyway...
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reader, MikeEa1 +, writes (17 July 2011):
it's the same for men as women. we love someone we want to be with them. we don't want to be involved with other people. the only difference is the sex drive. we have it and you don't so much. but apart from that and more importantly is the personality difference between you and your partner which is largely made up by life experiences. find out as much about your partner as you can by talking and listening. one day you will understand.
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