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writes:hi i wonder if i can have some advice. my wife behaves so differently since we were married. tell you how.for the past 5 years of marriage, if i take pictures of her she goes extremely angry.for the past 5 years of marriage, if i start to DISCUSS to her about anything we end up fighting.for the past 5 years of marriage, if i am tired after doing shiftwork she minds when i sleepfor the past 5 years of marriage, she always says she so sick and tired of her OWN kids. one is only 7 months old! other is 4 years old.for the past 5 years of marriage, after putting food in microwave for 1 minute, she expects me to eat it. if i say its not warm, she goes mad.for the past 5 years of marriage, she has never said to me willingly, (until I mention it), that she likes me alot personally or sexually.for the past 5 years of marriage, when i tell her that I have a problem with the way she behaves, it turns into an argument. what shall I do to ensure that we can both talk like a normal husband and wife and start living together peacefully like a husband and wife.for the past 5 years of marriage, when i ask her why is she behaving like that, she always says that people hate me so I should just die early or go somewhere so people can live in peace. Its obvious she knows what she is doing is wrong and its obvious she does not want to change.the only thing thats good is that she never refuses when I want to make love but even then I am the only one who makes a move and I am always doing it to her. she never does it to me. Reply to this Question
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (26 December 2009):
 She needs to go to the doctor to rule out a physiological cause for this condition. It´s probably easily treated, but the sooner it gets diagnosed, the better... I hope this helps...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 December 2009):
Wow, your wife has serious problems if she's acting this way. You can't talk to her, she actually says she's tired of her own kids, and she even says you should die? Sounds to me like she is seriously depressed or something. Perhaps it is post natal depression? Whatever it is, this needs to be addressed right now, because she isn't treating you well at all, and that's not acceptable. I think you need to sit her down and ask her why she is acting this way, and try to get an answer out of her. If she just argues, I think you need to consider carefully whether you want to be in this marriage if you're just going to get hurt.
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