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writes:I can not ask my question until you can have a full understanding of the situation at hand. About 7 years ago now, my best friend(At the time) "Fats" and I had been passengers in a friends car. The friend got a phone call from a very dear lesbian friend of his asking for a ride from her GFs house. We pull up near the house and there are two girls arguing. Ones butch and clearly the upset lesbian that called for help. And the other is this stunning woman that stole my heart the second I lay eyes on her and I cant stop staring. "Back off JB that's gonna be MY lesbian!" I hear Fats as I'm snapping out of a daze. About two weeks later The same kid that was driving Fats and I around Picks up the love of my life and we are all driving around, She wants to go get a friend of hers..there is no room in the car. "I'll sit on JB's lap" from that point on we made out, VICIOUSLY! hours passed. her friend in the back with us, at one point she joind the makeout-a-thon. we parked at a play ground 6 hours later.. started to drink. still making out hardcore. then out of NO WHERE she says Fats come get naked with me. Then they did their thing, and me and her friend did ours. After that nite my best friend and the love of my life started to date. They lasted about a year. mean while her and I started to create a bond. I have remained friends with her ever since that nite. Fats and I stopped being friends a few months after they broke up. Ha! for the same reasons she broke up with him. I never tried to do anything even though after they broke up.now my mom bought a house 5 doors down from my love, my bestest friend. I watch her date other guys for years. I could handle that. I had such a crush for this girl that I thought was to good for me, while she was thinking the same thing. one drunken night at the bar We had to have a sober friend drive us home.. well she decides shes hungry wants to get a burger, we go to wendys there closed, sober friend runs over a curb *kaboom* she askes did we die? and i said well if we died i couldnt do this, i reached up touched her face and kissed her... then we had sex. long story short..she fell and got scared and backed out. we stopped talking for a month or so.. but then everything went back to normal..I got over the fact that we are just going to be friends and I met a girl off at school and they become great friends...all of us. that ended quickly when my new gf realized how i felt..now they hate each other.that happend about 4 years ago. im still with her and the love of my life is still my BFF. now THE GF has become a babys mama after our 5 year relationship. and she has decided that she doesnt want to be with me any more and gets a new BF. that happend around new years 2010. now Babys mama and I are roommates. it was tearing me apart for months.about 2 days ago i was texting my BFF and said hey you know what would be funny, if we changes our FACEBOOK status. to get her jelous. she agreed! so now comments start coming in from every one. even my mom. tons of positive feed back from mutual friends. so she knows how shitty my roomate situation is and asked me to move in with her. so we went and looked at apartments.i told Babys mama that in a few months im moving out.tonite i get a text from babys mama stating "LOL dude why didnt you tell me you were with "her" why did you say you were gonna take her roommates room?" well what Babys mama doesnt know is that im fighting for custody. and im going to need that room for my daughter.ok soo i think i just needed to get some of that off my chest. the time span is way out of place, like i met the gf waaay before i ever had drunken best friend sex. Now that you know some history. She tells me she loves me all the time. and posted "Maybe ill admit... just a little bit... that there's a part of me... that wants to think it's real. ?" on my facebook. like i dont know if she is playing with my head. but today she texted me and said shes scared of me hurting her and that she loves me and knows that if we stay friends BLAH BLAH BLAH. I apologize for the rant. questions comments anything please
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reader, smitheroon +, writes (1 April 2010):
 First of all - I firmly believe in honesty. You need to sit down with this person and just lay your feelings out there and make it clear what's happening. The same goes for your custody issue. You need to be the one with integrity here and go for what you want and give everyone around you the chance to reply honesty. If you get rejected, then move on with your life and at least know that you did your best to be square with everyone and you gave them their fair chance.
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