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writes:hi,bascially i really really really like this guy. I no he will go out with me, BUT ,my ex boyfriend is like worst enimies with him. now i dont want people to think im only going out with him to get back at my ex. also i dont want him 2 try and break up us. what should i do ?? thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys. he asked me out and that is why i asked for help on here. trouble is my ex is STILL really possesive over me and no matter what i say he still thinks i love him. i JUST want to be friends. is that not clear?
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Things aren't over between you and your ex, for either of you. Obviously, your ex wants you back, and you still have feelings for your ex. If you didn't, you wouldn't care what your ex thought, and you and your current boyfriend would be threatening the ex with a restraining order if he so much as approached either of you. If you were truly over your ex, you and your current boyfriend would consider him completely irrelevant to your relationship, hence, he couldn't possibly break you both up because he means nothing to you.This is a soul searching dilemma. Decide once and for all to cut the emotional ties for good.
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Your EX... is just that... Your EX. You should go out with WHOMEVER you want to (basically). If you REALLY REALLY REALLY like 'guy B' then go out with him.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (11 June 2010):
 Well, deep down is there a possibility you want to go out with him to get back at your ex? If not, than who cares what everybody else thinks? If you like him, go out with him. And as far as your ex trying to break you two up, hopefully the fact that they are enemies would mean this guy wouldn't listen to your ex anyway if he tries to say stuff to break you two up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2010): It doesn't matter what other's think including your ex boyfriend. Why don't you let this guy ask you out instead of you asking him, then there is no question of your motives and you will know that this guy wants to go out with you.
That said be wary of a guy who is enemies with your ex wanting to date you, guys are competitive, this could be his way of getting back at him and rubbing it in his face and you will be used and hurt.
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