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writes: my 'boyfriend' has two other girlfriends and we all know about each other. well ,two of us know exactly what's going on but his real,legitimate girlfriend doesn't. the thing is his real girlfriend 'T' really likes me even though i try to keep away from her obviously because of the guilt.the other 'other' girlfriend 'F' is in his words 'just a friend' but i know they've had sex(he denies it , obviously). we never, ever talk about T and F just scowls when she sees me and she used to be a close friend. my best friend says im an idiot because of this guy. i love him very much but the guilt is just too much. he says i shuldnt thik abt the other girls but i cant help it. shuld i leave him even though i'm not really with him? i cant talk to my bestfriend about this cos she hates the guy.HELP
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reader, Intimate Answers  +, writes (16 October 2008):
 If you know he LIES to his other women, why give him an opportunity to do the same to you????RUN! I wish you the best!-Intimate Answers
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (14 October 2008):
 You know the beauty of not really being with him is that you can walk away without a reason. I'll be honest when I say he is a real ass. He is cheating on his girlfriend with not one, but two women and actually has the balls to say to you he isn't sleeping with one of them.
Hello?! This guy is bad news and will always be lieing to you and to his girlfriends. Get out of this now and find a man who will be dedicated to you and only you. Dont settle for being second best. You deserve more than that. He is just using you and "F" for sex.
Plus dont do what you are doing to "T." That is just wrong and unfair. Put yourself in her shoes and imagine if you found out she slept with your boyfriend. This alone should put things into perspective.
Goodluck
HonningKanin
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reader, Boredatwork  +, writes (14 October 2008):
 Yes you should leave him, he is playing all of you against eachother to get what he wants (most likly attention/sex from each of you).
Get away fomr him, and find someone who really cars about not, and not just themself/there own needs.
Your friend is right, you should listen to her.
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