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Lost my virginity I need help please

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Question - (31 December 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *oca17 writes:

ok i lost my virginity yesterday early in the morning around 1 or 2am in the morning me and my boyfriend want to have sex again but will it hurt worse the second time or not?and will it be hard for it to go in even though i already had sex once?

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (2 January 2010):

Teach your guy to give you plenty of foreplay - preferably bringing you to orgasm - before he tries to insert. You should also bring him to climax before intercourse - it'll help him be more controlled and attentive to your needs.

The only time I was with a virgin, the first time DID hurt her - but the second time, just a couple hours later, was much better - and we had sex 5 times in 24 hours.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010):

So I lost my virginity at 21. Once past the initial pain I was sore but I thought it was worth it to go again after about 6 hours. Make sure to be well lubricated and take it slow; it is probably different for everyone.

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A female reader, moca17 United States +, writes (1 January 2010):

moca17 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

moca17 agony auntthanx yall

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010):

Next time be sure to have LOTS of foreplay and see about pickin up some lube. Play with the lube on him first. If it hurts more than a day, you should get it checked out. Sex should be enjoyable, not painful.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (31 December 2009):

It will hurt a few more times yet, but it will get better. Just tell him to be gentle and make sure he spends time on you, and you'll be fine.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2009):

if you give yourself a few days for any soreness you may currently have to go then your next sexual experiences in my opinion will be a lot better and you will experience less pain.

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