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writes: i am 28 with kids and my hubby died 6months ago i met a great man 2 months ago he is 15 years older than me it feels right but is it 2 soon 2 be in love again? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, hilda +, writes (26 March 2007):
hilda is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very much
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reader, home_land +, writes (26 March 2007):
if you feel right go for it and try to be happy and have a new life you are alive and you can go on any time you want to.
good luck
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reader, cd206 +, writes (26 March 2007):
It's not that it's too soon. I'm sure your deceased husband wouldn't want you to sit arou8nd grieving for the rest of your life, especially given that you're still so young but I'd still take your new relationship slowly, for your own sake and your kids. Whether you still wake up crying every day or not you're probably still grieving on some level as are your kids and it's important to get all those feelings out before you definitively move on. By all means carry on seeing this guy but take things slowly and easily. If he's the right guy he'll understand your need to move slow.
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