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anonymous
writes:Hi all,I have been dating my girlfriend and we are having a long distance relationship. We have been dating over a year plus and we've already made plans together, such as me moving over to live with her soon.We used to text and video chat each other often, since these were the only ways to communicate with one another. However, recently, she has been rather cold towards me. She rarely text me, and even if she did, it's usually short sentences without even telling me that she loves me, etc. We never video chat as much as we did before and just a couple of days, she texted me by telling me that she still loves me but she can't continue this relationship due to the distance. I MANAGED to video chat with her - only for 15 mins since she's been going out a lot with her best friend (a girl btw). In the end, I asked her if she really want to end it this way, and she clarified with me that she is really stressed out with her work and her family has been the main cause of her problems since she's living with them. She admits that she still loves me and that she still cares for me.The day after, I told her that if she sees a FUTURE in our relationship and if it was possible to video chat. Unfortunately, she didn't give a reply, but she says she still cares for me. I woke up early in hopes of talking to her, but she says that she was tired and she wants me to go back to sleep.My question is: Does she still love me? Should I give her sometime off? Or should I end this relationship and move on with my life.
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (21 March 2015):
 I was in a long distance (4k miles) relationship for years and there wasn't a day went by where i wasn't excited to talk to my pattner. We are now married and togethet 9 years so ther eis hope but you need some communication and honesty.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 March 2015):
 Have you ever met her face to face?
If not, end it and move on.
if yes... it still may be time to end it. LDRs cannot survive without regular visits and the plan to end the distance within 2 years or so.
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reader, MSA +, writes (19 March 2015):
 Your relationship might've run it's course and she wants to move on with her life. Couples in a long distance relationship should look forward to talking/seeing each other daily. It appears she wants to do other things than spend time with you.
She most probably still cares a lot about you, but it no longer is the love she felt from before.
I suggest you let her be and move on.
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