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writes:Me and my boyfriend of a year have been having sex now for a bout 4 / 5 months. I was just wondering, whats a big turn on for a guy. Is he enjoying it when after sex sometimes, he turns over does he not like it. What could make the sex more exciting, apart from new postions becoz we try them all the time and enjoy them. He doe'snt want me to be the kind of girl who says things like 'I cant wait for you to Shove your ____ in me hard and fast, as that is not me at all, and its very slutty. Please help. I just want little things to turn him on, in and out of the bedroom Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Keep your panties on! Don't get your knickers in a twist! Put on your big girl panties and deal with it!
Oh NO!!! Wait!!! That wasn't our advice at all...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): Hey, that's not fair Birdy, you sneaked in first and know it looks like I stole your advice... lol
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (2 September 2008):
Great minds think alike!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2008): Orgasms are hard work on a guy, they take away a lot of energy, that's why guys turn over. After sex, they just want to sleep. You should try cuddling him, and kissing him on his kneck and shoulders, guys like that, it makes them feel loved. He dosen't mean to be rude, but he's just tired.
I believe in the power of massage. It makes people feel very intimate, it also makes people feel very loved. You could try this before sex. Get some baby oil, or almond oil, rub it into his back, legs and arse, be very slow, it's a wonderfull way to relax a man and make him feel special... Turn him over and do his front, by the time you reach his penis, he will get very excited, forget about love and just think about having passionate sex with you.. Have fun. It was very nice of you to ask this question about how to please him, he is very lucky to have a thoughtfull girlfriend like you... Blessings, good luck.
PS: A sexy thing outside the bedroom, is to not wear knickers. Then when your out tell him, and give him a little smile and say "wait untill we get home".. This will drive him crazy and he won't be able to concentrate on anything but you... Don't be shy about this, only you and him will know, it will be a little secret both of you can smile about.... :^)
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (1 September 2008):
I totally agree with anon about the fact that his behavior is very typical. Men crash after sex. SO, Never ask "What are you thinking?" and expect a conversation after sex!
I love waiting until just before we get to a party/dance/dinner/whatever we are doing that night, and then whisper "Oh my God! I forgot my panties!" and then alluding to a breeze or being cold all night in his ear. The anticipation and the build up is great. If I am quietly naughty in his ear privately, reminding him what is to come, he usually is over-there-beside-himself by the time we finally get to do it! So, Anticipation is a big turn-on! ;-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): yes i know exacally what you mean and feel,im the quiet type too.just ive found just being 'foward' is goood.like randomly pulling down his trousers.anything else just ask.hope it helps you
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2008): "Is he enjoying it when after sex sometimes, he turns over does he not like it."Yes, he does; he's just being male. After an orgasm, especially a good one, he's going to want to rest and recover. It's not that he doesn't like it, it's that he behaves differently afterwards than you (and most women) do. Talk with him, ask him to be with you more afterwards; you'll give him that short recovery space, but he needs to keep paying attention to you so you don't feel bad about it.Little things: While out and about, you look at him *that way*, with a quiet smile, for no real reason at all, just because you're thinking of him. You look at sexy clothes with him, occaisionally glancing at him with a sexy/happy look on your face; gives him the idea you're thinking of what this would look like in bed :-).The bigggest turnon is *attitude*, giving him that "YEAH!, she really likes sex with me!" feeling. Sounds like you've got no problem with that :-).
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