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writes:hi there.well this is a rather strange question i guess.but im going back to school this week and i have fallen out with prcatically all of my friends (most of them anyways) and i think im going to find it really hard. i will be going into yr10 so i know i will need to concentrate and stuff more anyways. but i suppose its going to be hard without the support from your friends. all of my friends dont go to my school which is a real shame but never mind. i just dont know what im going to do, i dont want to go round looking like a billy-no-mates. i dont even have a boyfriend and ive never had one either. so right now my life couldnt get any worse....suggestions and advice would be really helpful thanks again aunts and uncles x x x Reply to this Question
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reader, -TotallyInLove- +, writes (2 September 2008):
when i was in year 7, i knew NO ONE in my high school, and i met this girl, laura. we became the BEST OF FRIENDS! like, ever! we were inseperable, we were very best friends for 3 years, then in the 6 week holidays we had a little ta-do.. we argued, we bickered, we had fights, she ended up gettin jealous and stealing my boyfriend, she was 14 and she slept with my boyfriend of 7 months! i was devistated! i realised what a cow she was, and then eventually i said, ya know what. im better than you, i dont need arguements.. boys can come and go, but i thought you was my best friend! obviously not, it broke my heart more, not havin my best friend around hthan my boyfriend.. anyway! we didnt speak for months afterwards! in fact we still to this day dont speak! but it was like the 4th week of the holidays and i was petrified of goin back to school, we did have other friends but i was scared, i dreaded it! i cried buyin my new uniform, i cried goin into form on my first day, and as i walked in the school i saw her stood with three of the 'popular' girls, this made it loads worse! i had all these thoughts runnin around my head, i was worryin! i was seriously scared, [moderator's note: basically, she got all her friends back, made new ones, and got on great in life. But her ex-best friend ended up alone and in a much worse situation than her]but the whole point of this story is just to say, its not hard to make new friends! you may be used to the ones you had? but girls fall in and out like they change their knickers! lol, dont worry! walk into school with your head held up high, say hey to people as you see them, sit with new people, talk and dont be shy! laugh at their jokes, and they'll love you! (: good luckk goin back, im sure youll be finee. xOxOx mail me if theres absolutly anything you wanna talk about; love Billie! xOxOx
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reader, shiraz +, writes (1 September 2008):
hiyah, the best thing you can do is mingle! just be yourself and friendly to all the groups of friends at your school. if you balance it out- work and mates it should work out ok, dont spend time worrying about it or you will dread each day of going to school and eventually it will affect your school work. your still young so the boyfriend part is not too bad your probably better off without a guy for a bit (they usally cause 2x as much chaos in your life!) keep your options open, dont just look at some and think there not your type or you wont fit in, you never know unless you try and not many will be willing to step forward so its up to you to take the first step im afraid!itll take time to get to know people but will come eventually just enjoy your time growing up and looking forward to your future life. you have big descions to make in year 10 so focus on them too. best of luck :)
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