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chiikka skyyyyy
writes:hello my mom has been dating this guy for about 2 years now and im really getting sick and tired of it. He works mon-fri and comes home all tired . But he never does anything. my mom is working 2 jobs right now just to pay his and her rent he doent wash dishes do laundry cook clean or even do anything romantic..and im just really sick in tired of it but shes doesnt wanna break up with him cause hse understnads he works everyday. but shes works on sat-sundays to. and he couldnt even do something special for her on a saturday it justs makes me sick.my tip: never go out with a man that doesnt respect u. If say one night u were at a bar and a man comes over and hes not drunk but sorta and hes really cute but he says some lousy pickup like dont fall for it hell just be another lazy man that doesnt work or anything. i mean u proabaly will blow this off but my childhood was wrecked because of my mother and marrying my father. he was a drunk he did drugs and he didnt worked and i ended up homeless with him and my brother and my mom was living with some other stupid basterd. yu dont need yu or yer kids living like i did and still do.please take my tip seriously if yu wanna chat to hear what i have to say message me or comment;
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007): To be honest at your age, it's really none of your business how your mother chooses to run her life. You can't control other people's lives, but you can control your own, so sort yourself out and let your mother get on with hers.
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (26 July 2007):
There are lots of lazy ,SOB'S, Useless men and women in this world, that's a fact, Yes, it's even a way of life for some people. In the case of your mother, she has the right to being abused as she sees fit. However she may not see it as abuse. And perhaps their sexual relationship is the only game in town. And if you are living at home, you could always pack-up and move out. It looks as if your mother didn't let you run her her life when you were growing up, don't think that she's going to let you do that now either. You can't live your mother's life, but you can take more control of your own. And that's what I would be doing,ASAP,As soon as possible.
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reader, rachy-baby-helps  +, writes (25 July 2007):
 In this situation you have to ask yourself if your mother is happy? And most importantly whether you want her to stay happy?Try talking to both your mother and this guy, because they may not realise how their relationship is affecting you. Just hav a nice chat to them seperately and see what you can find out. If, however you would rather not, try talking to your mother about your concerns. Tell her that you think his behaviour is unfair, share your feelings with her and you will become much closer. I understand that your childhood has played a big part in your life, but if you can talk to your mother or even a friend about things that are bugging you.In a relationship, people should work together and share workloads.But if your mother is hapy,maybe you should try and be happy for her? even if you don't like this guy and his behaviour, your mother may not mind too much.
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reader, chiikka skyyyyy +, writes (24 July 2007):
chiikka skyyyyy is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondid that affend yu or something?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007): Okay. This bloke sounds a bit like an MSP. What does he want from his relationship? I feel that all relationships should be equal. If you are living together, then the bloke should share the chorses with the female. If he wants to make love with his partner, then he should help her with the things that need doing. I am not together with my girlfriend yet, but when we are together, we should help each other out. OKAY.
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