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writes:Hi,okay, ladies please help!! My ex and I have been broken up 3 weeks now...last week i phoned her on monday, left a message, and she called right back. She is leaving for Italy for business today. I said on monday, "can we get together before you leave?" she said, yeah, I'll let you know tues or wed. Well, I called her thursday morn, and she took my call. I asked her to dinner, she said i'll let you know, and called back saying she couldn't. She then said I was thinkin friday..i'll keep you posted she said. Well, no call friday, or sat. or sunday. However, I know she would expect me to call, which I didn't. My question is this: I want her to miss me, and want me..by not calling her, when she probably thought I would since I usually do, do you think she is like..hmmm.he didn't call me? and will that prompt her to think of me more? I figured if I did call her to say "have a good trip" she would be like okay, he called and then feel strong. Basically, did I get respect in a weird way? I know she loves me alot, I;m sure of this..we've been together 5 years, and have a deep friendship.....so did i do right? and when she returns, what should happen? will she call? should I call her?thank you , sorry so detailed!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): Let her be. If she still has feelings for you she'll CALL YOU. If you stop calling her she either will feel relieved 'cause she might have felt you were pushing too hard, or she'll wonder where you went and probably call you up.
Don't push so hard, some women hate to be chased and would rather do the chasing. Let her chase you for awhile.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (18 June 2007):
 Babe u and her are over.. but you want her to miss you?? i dont get it lol.. maybe u to are just friends now?? i dont know but if u want to ring her then ring her =] mail me if u wana talk x x x
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reader, burningbridges  +, writes (18 June 2007):
I think she's too nice to say no, but not nice enough to say she’s not interested. An acrimonious break up can be confusing; as if the person doesn't hate you it can be hard to remember they don't love you either.
Leave her alone, she has you number so if she misses you, you’ll soon know it.
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