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writes:So I know this guy for about 6 days now. We met when I stuck in my car on a road and he helped me to get back home. Then he asked me for my phone number and I gave him, because he was acting sweet and I thought we could make good friends. He started calling me and we talked about 5 mins every day and he said he would help me to go to buy a new battery for my car. I said I would appreciate his help because I'm a real freakin noob in cars. So today we went to the store and bought that thing and while driving back we spoke a little about traveling and stuff, then he told me he would like me to go with him to another city this evening. I love traveling so I said yes. But I kinda regret it now... He's all sweet and fun but still he's not my cup of tea. I mean if he lift he would look better, cause I like guys with muscles and he just looks weak. Really I don't know what he thinks about me. If he likes me only as a friend then I'm fine, but if he invited me to go with him because he's thinking of me in a romantic way then it's too bad. And I feel awkward now due to all the confusion. Please help me anyone what should I do.And I'm taller than him and it also makes me feel insecure. It's just an inch maybe but still...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 October 2016):
 I would drop it in casually that you really could do with more friends like him who are helpful. But if I am being honest I think it is to soon to be travelling to another city with him, I think it would be wiser to stay in places you know until you get to know him better.
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reader, Hazy H  +, writes (24 October 2016):
 tell him you could use some time out having fun and just chilling, let him know your intentions.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (23 October 2016):
 Honestly? I think 6 days is WAY to short to go "travelling" with someone.
If he is not your type, then he is NOT your type. Doesn't mean you can't have a friendship. Doesn't seem like he has tried anything yet anyways.
I would GET to know him on a FRIENDLY basis to suss out any romantic notions. I wouldn't PRESUME that he is hung up on you just yet. And therefore I wouldn't start with WE can do this as friends, but I also wouldn't go "travelling" to another city with him until THAT is established and you know him from Adam.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (23 October 2016):
 Just tell him you're not looking for a relationship but would be happy to hang as friends if he's willing to do that. Or if you are completely regretting all of it you could say you changed your mind and you're wanting a night in to yourself.
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