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writes:Everytime i asked him if he found someone else he told me i was crazy. when really he was spending alot of time with this girl behind my back. When he found out that i knew he confessed that he kissed her and im thinking he obviously liked her because he spent alot of time talking with her...Is kissing considered cheating?
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reader, Mr Me  +, writes (19 March 2009):
 Let me amend my post: working it out means that you have to tell him to not hang out with her anymore. Although, I will say that one problem is that I tend to believe that people have the tendency to repeat doing things. So, you never know if he'd do this again. My suggestion: sorry to say it, but leave him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): Hone, this boy obviously doesn't respect and love you if he's going to go hang out with another girl behind your back. I know you don't want to hear this, but of course he's cheating. If nothing was going on between him and this girl, he would've told you. If it were me, I would break it off.
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reader, Mr Me +, writes (19 March 2009):
Most people will tell you yes. In fact, I think you'd be hard pressed to find anyone who will tell you "no".
Really the line between OK and cheating is something that you and your bf have to define. For my gf and me, we draw the line at anything beyond simple flirtations.
I hate to say it, but it sounds like your boyfriend has found someone else and is too scared to say that he wants to move on. Confront him about it and either a) find out if you can work it out or b) , sadly, leave him. I know (b) isn't the greatest of answers, but you obviously can't have a boyfriend running around with another girlfriend. That's not respectful of you and it's not putting you first in his life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): Yes kissing is cheating. How would he like it if yo "kissed" someone else. And he's also making you feel like your crazy for suspecting.
Is he really worth it honey?
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reader, asian tealeaf +, writes (19 March 2009):
 ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!! anything intimate, even phone sex, anything done without ur knowledege, and it was done in a secretive way,sneaky, lying, is ALL cheating.kissing the opposite sex, is cheating. because ur sharing something which should ONLY be shared with ur mate .even petting, dry sex, or telling another person ur interested in them is cheating, because as long as ur attached to someone else and u have NOT broken it off, is cheating.there is a threshold or border that one should never cross, ur bf has crossed this. im thinking more than a kiss took place...
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