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writes:hii xive just started goin out with a guy who is jst perfect for me =)my problem is that i get jealous of the smallest of things. lyk if he doesnt text bak, i think he's with another girl or doesnt like me anymore. in the past ive been cheated on so that probably has somet to do with it. but how can i stop worrying about this stuff so that me nd him can hav a good thing going without me messin things up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much =) I will try to remind myself of how lucky I am and get away from the situation when I feel jealous, like you said.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all so much for your help, I will definitly take what you have said on board.
I looked at that link and it's really helpful so thanks a lot Mandy :)
Thank you all again :D
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (1 November 2008):
 Hi Hunny
I can tell from your post that you don't want to be like this at all, Not one guy is like another. This is the most important thing to remember sweetheart, The only person you will really hurt is you in the end...I'm going to send you a link to help love....
http://www.selfesteem4women.com/jealousy.php?ad=23
There is loads of info on that link that I hope will help love, if you need a chat at any time message me TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, shiraz +, writes (1 November 2008):
hiyah jealousy is a big problem in a lot of relationships so your not the only one. the only problem is it will affect what you have and on some occasions end it. its unfair to judge him on all that he does when most of the time its innocent so remind yourself each time your so quick to judge think it through first.you love this guy and want to make it work so go the right way about it by taking action now. dont letyour past wruin what you have and i say it a lot but past should stay past as not everyones the same.you have to stop being insecure mentally as well as physically. deal with the problem now. why not talk to him so hes aware of your insecurities. if you have his support hell be more understanding next time the problme arises.next you have to give each other space and be able to deal with it. yeah hes perfect but when your with someone 24/7 it will start to get to you both and will affect the way you are with each other a bit of time to do your own thing and sort your head out might help your relationship strengthen. i cannot tell you how to be with him though its up to you what you choose to do but just be careful it seems you really dont want to loose him and i think he can actually help you with your insecurities if you just talk to him.sorry this isnt really advice- best of luck x
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