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writes: So there's this blonde girl I was really jealous of who spends time with my bf and talks to him all the time and it was really bothering me, I recently found conversations between them that were really disgusting and hurt me a lot, she even sent him pictures of her in her bikini, I'm jealous of her and I was really hurt, I confronted him about it immediately and he really felt bad and so far I haven't found anything like this since, but this girl lives downstairs from us, and we are trying to work this relationship out, but I am having a hard time trusting him even though nothing physical happened what do I do???
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reader, boo22 +, writes (21 January 2010):
Wouldn't it be great if you could be a fly on the wall?
I'd be insisting he moved out of that flat and into a new one but that's just me.
Or better still she moves, but if I thought it was happening again, he'd be dumped
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell she knows all about it, and they don`t talk at all anymore, and she has a boyfriend, she`s one of those girls that are really easy.. except now that I know this happened, I feel the urge to lash out and do the same thing back to him`. And Raodster73 I am really nice to her face hahaha and I am usually a mellow loving girlfriend, hahaha :) thx a lot!
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reader, Roadster73 +, writes (20 January 2010):
I would go and speak to her and say you found everything.. or go the other way and seem not bothered about it in front of her and be mega nice everytime you see her?
Thing is, if its going to happen it will and no amount of worrying or stressing will change that? just be the most mellow loving girlfriend there is and hopefully he will have no need to stray
Personally I would kick his bot to the kerb and say they are welcome to each other!!
Good luck
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