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anonymous
writes:I am 23 years old and I am engaged to the most wonderful man in the world. We have been together for 6 years and for some reason I am still jealous. He has never given me a reason to be but I just am. We are always at his family's house and his little brother recently got a girlfriend last year. I am not going to lie this girlfriend of his little brother is pretty and I feel super jealous around her. I have caught her looking at my fiance , like checking him out and I get so angry inside. I feel so paranoid like I ask myself questions like what if my fiance starts liking her or think she is prettier than me. I always let my mind wander, which is not always a good thing. I tell my Fiance about my feelings and he tells me that he is in love with me and could never find anyone better and thats why he wants to marry me. He tells me that he does not find her attractive whatsoever, and I do believe him but I always ask myself what if. I just feel like I need to act my age and not try to compete with a girl who is just 18 years old. I do not know what to do?
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reader, doom  +, writes (1 December 2009):
 Well it's normal for your reaction, believe me.And i will dissapoint you.You will never change, and you'll be always jealous,because in my oppinion you care a lot of your husband and you are afraid to loose him.But try to controle your self, and please please think that you are prettier then the other girl, even if it's not...you should have your proper self esteem!!! think you are pretty!! he loves you of what you are...every man has a model, but not every women is beyoncé, and we don't complain.
good luck
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