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I've waited so long to be with him, why have I lost interest?

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Question - (8 July 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2007)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 36-40, *bt1987 writes:

When I was 16 I met my new best friend Jaymore. I met him through my friend Alicia which was his girlfriend. He was there for me when I needed him. Now while we were getting closer our feelings got mutual, we wanted to be more than just friends. But he was with Alicia and we just disregarded it. I decided to date someone else and when that happened; he and Alicia broke up. I was like damn! So After a while I broke up with the boyfriend at the time. We were both single and then I moved. I cried a lot of nights and then forgot about him for a period of time.

Then one day out of the blue my friend Teneeal called me and said that Jaymore wanted to talk to me. I got so excited. We started talking, even started to concur a long distance relationship. Its been 7 months now and my cousin now all out of the blue decides to tell me not to talk to him or date him or anything. I'm thinking why would she go to great lengths to not see us together? But I also started to get that feeling like I don't want to be with him now and I'm hoping that its just cuz we're in a long distance relationship. I don't even have the feeling to call and talk to him or even take his calls and it has nothing to do with my cousin. That's just how I feel but I can't even explain that either. What is wrong with me? I've waited so long to be with him to feel this?

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (9 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntWell, it seems you don't want a relationship with him anymore.

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