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*tarisrocks
writes:How can I tell my long distance boyfriend I'm having second thoughts about going to see him in 2 days? I just been having visions of him cheating on me and I don't think I can face him until I get these stupid visions out my head. We haven't seen each other for 6 weeks maybe I'm getting scared? How can I explain this to him as he's been excited about seeing me again ever since he last left mine.
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reader, atarisrocks +, writes (21 July 2007):
atarisrocks is verified as being by the original poster of the question id just like to say i went to see my bf but spent most of the time in bed as i was very ill during the first night i was there but lucky i was feeling better by the time we came back to mine and had a great week with him
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reader, rambini +, writes (9 July 2007):
 i think u shud go to see him, long distance relationships r hard, n they take work. when u c him it will b easier 2 judge how u feel and if u have insecurities u shud talk them thru with him as, especially in a long distance realtionship, communication is vital!! good luck x x
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reader, LauraE +, writes (9 July 2007):
The only reason not to see him is if you don’t care for him any more. On the one hand you say he is excited about seeing you, and on the other that you fear he is cheating. This doesn’t make sense, and no doubt you realise this yourself. I think you need to see him. Don’t say anything to him about your fears, at least until you have been back with him for a little while. By then you will know how you really feel. It would be silly to break up because of what you imagined might have happened. Find out what you really feel, then decide.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007): How long had you been in a long distance relationships. 'Cause I tell you, I am in a long distance relationship and i get those thought all the time. Specially when it gets close to the date to go see him. I don't know about your relationship, but mine is very insecure, and i do not trust him. I don't have any advice since i am on the same situation, but i do tell you that you should solve it quit and talk to him; otherwise you'll go crazy with those ideas on your head.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 Well, this is a hard one. I'm afraid you can't tell him anything now. What you should do, however, is have a clear picture of why you have second thoughts about him. I wonder what could happen in four weeks for you to feel this way.
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