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writes: i have just broken up with my girlfriend and i realy loved her. she messed with my mind and now i have turned into a person that dosent care anymore about life or anything. how am i supose to get over her? Reply to this Question
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (1 September 2006):
 Just take it one day at a time. Try keep your mind open to all the beauty of the world outside. Stare up at the sky on a nice, sunny day, its sure to get you upbeat. I cant ever stop myself wondering about the prettiness(spelling? word even exist?) of the sky with all those crazy clouds always changing shape and looking like they're having some kind of race (gosh I wish it was day time now:-P)
Dont give up caring on living no matter what. In time you'll get over your hurt and stuff but keep in mind that life is pretty good (way better than the alternative!)
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reader, Tine +, writes (31 August 2006):
 there is no straight answer or way to actually getting over someone, it'll come naturally however sitting around doing nothing will do you absolutely no good. All you'll be doing is thinking of what went wrong and how you can turn back time. You need to start picking up the pieces and moving on one step at a time. Life does go on and no matter how much you think it doesnt, it does. It may take you a few months maybe even a yr to get over this, but the time wil come and when it does you will no. So get out there and do things that you wouldve done before, drinking with friends, going out with friends, meetin up with family you know that kind of stuff and gradually as time goes by you'll get back into the normal way
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (31 August 2006):
 I would suggest that you get some counselling to get your head straight. Whether this girl messed with your head on purpose or not, I think you need to work on getting over what happened and move on.
It's sad when people say they don't care about life: there's so much to live for! Get some help and you'll soon see that and you'll also be able to move on and have a normal, healthy relationship.
Good luck
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