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writes:I've liked the same guy for two yearsAt the beginning of last year we were sort of a coupleOur parents are friends which made it so much easier to see each other we all went away on holiday..there we got even closer not knowing what was still to come. My parents were still abit over-protective that time forcing me to end our relationship..i liked him so so so much making it really hard for me to do so. He then got a girl friend which didn't last very long. After that he went to America to see his sister when he came back he hooked up (kissed) another girl which he was friends with he then began liking her and soon started going out. It was like he always had to have someone. They’ve been dating for a year now and I still have feelings for him it’s like they won’t go away. He also doesn’t make my getting over him very easy because he flirts with me.. the way he looks at me the way he holds me when she’s not around also makes me fall even harder I now really cant get over him as much as I’ve tried its kind of impossible. I’m sure he still has a little bit of feelings for but his to scared to act on them my parents also now realises how much i like him but it’s too late. I’ve run out of ideas of what to do please give me advice =)ThanksCutEypIe*
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reader, cuteblonde124  +, writes (3 November 2008):
 well if he is still in a relationship, you need to give him space. you dont want to cross the line. everything happens for a reason, if yall are suppose to be together, it will happen. let it some when it is suppose to though. dont rush it!! also hun, it sounds like he still has feelings for you :D goo luck
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reader, orangelady  +, writes (2 November 2008):
This sounds like a horrible situation to be in. I think if you have liked him for that long maybe it is time to bring things out into the open? maybe you should just tell him how you feel so he knows and if he turns you down then atleast you can get over him and hopefully he will stop flirting with you which will make it easier.
goodluck xx
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reader, Deema +, writes (2 November 2008):
 You are both very young and I think he is just having fun with as many girls as he can - and he doesn't seem to have any trouble in getting them either !!!! Don't be too serious at this time in your life. Go out and see other boys too. You need to get a lot of experience so that you can see whos a real good guy and whose not, so play the field yourself. He will find you a whole lot more interesting that way too, rather than seeing you as someone just sitting on the side lines waiting for him. He can pick you up and put you down as he pleases - and he knows that. So forget about him for a while and ask yourslef what would make YOU really happy, then go do it. Have fun, concentrate on making your life good and keeping your self-respect, which gets damaged when we hang around waiting for a boy to throw us crumbs. So be the best you can be, doing what makes you happy and who knows, you may even find you don't ned him half as much as you thought you did. Try it, it works, it really does. Lots of love xx
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