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female
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36-40,
*illyboo
writes:HiMe and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year he used to be laid back chilled, exciting and we used to get on great.Now he is moody tired all the time, he has terrible anger and shouts at me.He has gone off sex and i just can tdo anything rightThansk please reply Reply to this Question
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reader, livi +, writes (24 March 2007):
 hey there,
hmm difficult. Maybe let him chose where to go and spend the day doing what he wants, finding a way for him to relaz should lightening him up a bit.
Perhapse he is stressed else where, work, family etc.
Just let him know you are there for him and you love him, you cant do much more then that
Good luk : D
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reader, Dr.Palmer +, writes (23 March 2007):
 Hello Lilyboo.
I tend to think that after about 10 months male's start to show the real side of them like Jamitri has stated above.
This could be caused from alot of reason's which consist of stress, work, family issues, friends, drinking, drugs etc.
Without any other infomation I cannot say anything except talk to him and ask him straight what's going on.
I know this seem's harsh, But why should you be treated like dirt?
Just confront him and ask him what his problem is, oR if he need's someone to talk to about an issue.
If his anger and shouting does not stop I think he has no respect or caring for you.
Hope it work's out.
Thanks,
Dr. P.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2007): Hi there! Im sorry to hear that things have gone this way. There could be a number of reasons he is acting this way and without knowing a lot about him I couldnt really pinpoint what the problem is.
If you have been generally getting on well, perhaps he has been under undue stress at work or maybe experiencing a form of depression which could alos be work related. Sometimes stress and Depression can be brought on by other factors such as major event like a death in the family or being fired from work, etc.
A year is not a great deal of time to 'bed in' to a relationship, so perhaps this is the real him coming through, after the initial months of a relationship where both parties usually behave their best to give the best impression to the other.
Is there any other information which may pinpoint the problem? Does he use any drugs?
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