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If my girlfriend cared then why isn't she calling?

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Question - (25 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 May 2008)
A male South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi guys my girlfriend broke up with me last nite but I love her so muvh but I to feel its better 2 call it quits because she has not been appreciating me I would give my all for her and she gave me nothing in return,I still feel like calling her but my pride gets in the and I want to forget about her,do you think its okey if she doesn't call me or even sms me coz she is just quiet and I'M WONDERING IF SHE EVER CARED FOR ME,WHY ISN'T SHE CALLING ME PLEASE TEL

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A female reader, aphexinfinite United Kingdom +, writes (25 May 2008):

aphexinfinite agony auntwell when i broke up with my bf i never called or txt him until over a month later, when you break up with someone its better to sever the tie between the two of you so you can both move on and focus on yourself. by the sounds of it it wasnt ment to be and you will find a better partner in the future. you will feel the need to talk to her but try and refrain for both your sakes as you made a mutual decision. i know its hard and im not gonna pretend its easy but it does get easier with time let time takes its course and you will feel better for it. so apply yourself to your hobbies or talking to family that helped me when i went through the rough time with my ex... thats my opinion aphex

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008):

It is natural for her not to call as she is now trying to move on from you. If you kept in contact then it will be very hard for you to move on as you still love her and want to be with her.

It is very natural that you want to call her as you are hurt right now. But try to be strong. If you mind needs cleared then maybe you could talk to her in a week or so. Eventually you will stop wanting to talk to her so badly.

It looks like you deserved better.

Try to move on and in time you will find someone who will appreciate what a giving and caring boyfriend you are.

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