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writes:is 30 years of age, I feel old because i never had any thing.i,ll never get married i never had boyfriend no body would bother with me. I'm really discouraged about all of this!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): I agree with much of the advice the other readers have given you.
You are probably being too choosy of the type of man you want to be with. the image you have probably does not exist. In reality we often end up with people who have a few points we love nad a few we have to life with, they are not perfect.
DEcide what is important to you - its it personality, interests, stability and work from there. Life is too short. At the age of 30 you are still young and still have time for children but you need to do your bit and let the men in. You are closing the doors on them. There is enough fish in the sea for everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): sorry mr i don,t know who you are talking.there is more then one person my age group in ireland.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): I'll apologise in advance if you're not the same woman who keeps on posting this question and loads more in the same vein. If you are she, please! No more!
Turn off your computer and get out more. You're not likely to meet anyone of substance from behind a computer screen. Get yourself some sort of social life. Find your nearest pub and talk to people. Smile at people and you'll find they smile back. Start up a new hobby. Get yourself a repertoire of easy-to-remember jokes and tell a few.
Further reading: The book 'How to win friends and influence people'. Amazon is selling copies from a little over £3.
Wallowing in self-pity is not an attractive attribute.
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reader, Ted-ster  +, writes (31 December 2008):
Guys are easy -- really. Particulalry if they don't have any baggage:) A real plus now-a-days! Make the first move: Don't be shy. Try internet dating, or buying a pint. Ask friends or coworkers, hey! who is that guy! Fix me up if he's single. Trust me, it will work!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): You should try to get out as much as possible with friends dont go out looking for a guy just go out to have fun. Try going to places you dont normally go or try a proper dating agency or internet dating. You must be fed up i get that but dont give up all hope dont be affraid to talk to people and you never no the right guy could be just round the corner.
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