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anonymous
writes:I think I'm sick. I like guys, as in I will check out cute, good looking guys and think of how is it like if I have a boyfriend but I get aroused when I see nude girls, or girls making out. Even when I touch my self. And in the past when a guy confessed to me, I will freak out badly and stress up myself. Am I a lesbian? What am I?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2009): Dear Poster
Based on the information provided by yourself I don't think you have any reason to be concerned. Relax and stop stressing; I am aware of many girls and women with similar arousal and they are living very happily with there male partners; I don't think there is anything wrong with you;
Allow yourself fantasies.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): My gosh. Chill out!
I'm a female and straight, but i love the thought of kissing a girl and maybe even more, but i would never want a relationship with someone of the same gender.
You're just curious, which is a good thing. Don't stress out over things like this...
Have fun, and maybe even experiment with a girl. It doesn't make you 'sick' or a lesbian!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): rubbish! trauma!!!
I like men and could never imagine being in a relationship with a woman (1 in a relationship is hard enough!!) but I get turned on by the same things very very easily.
When masturbating it is the easiest and quickest way for me to get the result I want. I don't think I'm sick or weird or traumatised!
Just as men fantasise about threesomes or alternative entrances women fantasise about things they've never actually encountered. When either come down to trying it out both may not go through with it. It just fantasy.
You are completely normal!
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (31 December 2008):
 Look girl.. You're just young.. You didn't mention if you like having sex or have sexual desire for men..
Any girl would get excited to see a nude girl.. Nothing wrong with that.. You need to figure out who would you wanna have sex with.? A handsome guy or a beautiful girl..
G'day
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (31 December 2008):
 you're not sick.
you're not a lesbian but with a little training you very well could be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2008): You are not a lesbian. You are a young girl trying to figure out her sexuality and you are experiencing arousal over people being nude and being sensual.
If you are checking out guys and getting stressed when they show interest....you are merely attracted to men, but nervous.....take your time with them and approach them as friends first....in other words put relationship first, not sex and you will then feel safe with a man who is deserving of your trust and shows you that he is trustworthy......
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