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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i dated for 6 months. we had a normal relationship. we did fight here and there. but it was always over because he had no time for me. he would rather spend time with his friends on our days off together. it used to be i would only have time to see him at work. recently he broke up with me, just out of no where.. after we were having a nice night together. he said he needed the break because he was to busy with school, friends, work, his band, and his clothing company.. that it wasnt fair to me because i need a lot of attention and he couldnt give it, as much as he would like. we are still friends because we work together but the whole friend thing isnt working out. we fight a lot more. i feel its my fault we are fighting more because i want to lash out and yell at him to take me back, because when we talk it seems like he doesnt care that im crushed. he doesnt seem to be crushed either. i guess what im tryin to say is do i move on.. or wait for him? he says he wants to get back together in the future, but it could be a while. help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): I would say move on and if it was ment to be he will come looking for you.
Its hard I know but dont make yourself available to him because in all honesty thats a major turn off for guys and girls alike.
He was honest with you in stating he doesn't have time for you. He is not ready for a commitment which you are looking for at the moment. So stay friends and hopefully at a later stage it might work out.
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