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*idfromLA93
writes:Its kind of a weird situation , once i saw this girl in school , first time i saw her something inside me moved , my heart just started to beat weird i feel like pressure inside me i never felt before , i am attracted to her like i've never been to a girl, Oh my god its just WOW!!!I just like her presence , how she is showing up and her energy she does give out , i wouldn't change anything on her , she's just perfect.We never talked before , we just had sometimes eye contact and her eyes spoke to me , i felt she was telling me something , but i think thats probably imagination.Every time i see her my heart and mind goes crazy.Here is a another thing, she is a lesbian ( not a dyke ,a feminine girl ,she has a strong soul i can feel it) and she has a girlfriend , i am not sure if she still is together with her , i find out when i start school in some weeks.I saw her a long time ago , she just wont get out of my head, i was trying to forget her , because i said to my self this never would work out , because she just probably likes girls and if i would talk to her this would be disrespectful , because she does not like boys probably and has a girlfriend. I just can't forget her even if run against the wall or yell in the middle of the nowhere . I think its the best if i try to forget her ,but i am confused because i never felt an attraction like that before to a girl.Please Help me !!!! What should i do ?
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reader, KidfromLA93 +, writes (21 August 2010):
KidfromLA93 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for your advices ,problem is solved now she does not go to my school anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): Do you even know her as a person? If you are so attracted to her, getting a little closer--as a friend--will...okay, it won't be statisfying but you will still TALK to her. Talking to her will also determine a couple things: 1. Is she really a good person, 2. Is she bi or plain, straight on lesbian, 3. If she's had relationships or feelings for girls before (if this is her first then it could be the start of something but also ((I say this as a bi-questioning lady myself)) girls tend to be more experimental with their love life and may think or try relationships with the same sex), 4. If she's been a lesbian all her life and is dead sure about it or if she's had feelings for boys before. Good luck. You sound like a real good guy. Someone will want you.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (9 August 2010):
 "I just like her presence , how she is showing up and her energy she does give out , i wouldn't change anything on her , she's just perfect."
Yet for there to be any chance of you two getting together you'd have to change her... drastically.
You need to take her off her pedestal and move on buddy...
Best of luck :)
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