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I've lost my sex drive... what can I do?

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Question - (13 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2008)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

I am 53, and in the last month I have lost my sex drive. What can I do?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (14 November 2008):

DoubleM agony auntAre you taking medications such as those prescribed for hypertension?

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A female reader, helpjayne United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2008):

helpjayne agony auntspice up the sex life if you have a partner come up with your fantasys making a list in itself might get u excited.

you could go to the docs and see what they reccomend or sometimes a change in diet can help. if your single start dating exciting women.

or try masturbation using porn.

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A male reader, DKW United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2008):

Need a bit more information from you really my friend, it could be anything!

If you're in a steady realationship, are you insecure about your partner? Has sex got boring and samey? Are you depressed or on medication?

Depression has a big effect on sex drive, and unfortunately most of the medication prescribed for it has the same effect!

If it's none of these, try looking at porn in private. Not to just jerk off and finish, I mean to stimulate your desire. Look at your choice of pornographic media, play with yourself if you want to, but don't finish! It has been proven to increase libido in many studies.

Buy your partner some sexy underwear, maybe take her away somewhere, this needn't be a big problem for you.

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