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writes:Ive lost him!last night i met a really gr8 guy and we hit it of pretty much straight away in the club we wer in. things like that just dont normally happen to me i was totally flattered as in my oppinion he was drop ded gorgeous! All great you may be thinking! but we lost each other in the crowds before numbers got exchanged etc which put a massive downer on my nite and ever since i cant get him outa my mind! thinking all things like did he purposely go? Ive never been one of these girls that have a lot of confidence in themselves and throw themselves at lads every week so im sure you can imagine i was on cloud 9! but this has totally knocked my confidence leavin me feeling all lonely yet again all my friends have bfs! please help me how can i get it all of my mind? or even better how can i find him again! Female aged 20
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (8 October 2007):
Give yourself some time, you just met him last night! Go back to the club next weekend and see if he shows up too. If not, oh well it wasn't meant to be. I know you are all high and excited, but honestly you just talked to this guy in a loud club one night... you don't really know him at all. Try to keep it in perspective and just enjoy the moment... don't let your emotions get too crazy over someone you barely know. Then even if you do find him you will have built him up so high he has no where to go but down. It's great to be excited about someone great, but be more careful with your heart darlin'!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007): thanks for the replies guys but im not totally sure i can put it dwn to experience and forget about it i REALLY liked him! maybe ill follow kenny's advice and try seek him out in the club another time! but what can i do to help me forget this if i dnt find him?
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (7 October 2007):
 i agree with tommy7 just let it be a memory of a guy that you really made you feel special. let it be a memory that boasts your confidence not put you down. i love things like that when you enjoy an evening but you know you will never see them again. guys like that are sometimes the best at least you know you will the person he spoke to that night and he made you feel special
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (7 October 2007):
Keep this night as a special memory. Don't expect to track him down and find prince charming.
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reader, kenny +, writes (7 October 2007):
 Maybe he frequents this club you were in, maybe you should try going back on the same night you were there last time, who know's you may bump into each other again. Alternatively if you don't see him again put that episode in your life down to experience. You are only 20, you have got all the time in the world to meet your perfect guy. Just don't get to desperate to meet someone, relax, have fun and you will meet mr right when you least expect it.
All the best & good luck x
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