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I've liked him for two years but he is dating my friend

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Question - (4 January 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2012)
A female Australia age 26-29, anonymous writes:

well i have really liked this guy for more then 2 years and then i just found out like 3 mouths ago that my bestfriend likes him to, and now i dont know what to do because they are together... i have told him i liked him and he didnt want to screw our friendship up do you think thats a lie?

i have tried to get over him so many times and i cant! i need help and advace please

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2012):

I'm sorry, but he's just not interested in you. He was being kind when he said what he did. I just don't think he fancies you I'm afraid.

Whilst it's hard, and I know it's not what you want to hear, the best thing you can do is continue to move on as much as you can.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (4 January 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntIf he told you he didn't want to screw up your friendship then he likes you just as a friend and it's time for you to let the hope of more go....

he was being kind...

advice: keep your eye out for a guy that appeals just as much and see what happens...

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2012):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntwell if he didn't want to screw up a friendship with you but picked your best friend for a relationship then i'd say he was never interested in you because picking your friend would piss you off and create tension damaging the friendship you had with him.

i think he was trying to let you down without putting the boot in.

i think you need to distance yourself from him as that's the easiest way to get over someone.

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