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writes:Earlier today I was dumped. I cried histarically for some time. So now I feel really drained and pathetic. Does anyone have any advise? any would be appreciated. Thanks a million, xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): earlier today i also got dumped by my boyfriend of nearly i year, i was completely in love with him and thought he felt the same, until he told me today he no longer loved me, after that everything became clearer to me and i realised how badly he had treated me in our relationship, i'd mentally blocked it out and forced myself to beleive that he truly loved me. i also cried hysterically, and now feel completely pathetic ( mostly because i ignored the numerous warnings about him people had given me ).
anyway, my point is that everyone goes through this at some point and you are deffinately not alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): dont feel down evri1 goes through it in there lifetime just dont let it get to you hun :) have a good time with your life dont let boys get in the way ! dont sit there crying over one boy coz i can garentee that it will happen again just get over it dont let tht 1 guy rewin your life !!
Good Luck :D
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reader, penta  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 Don't feel alone sweetheart, this has happened to all of us at one time or another. I know it's hard to hear now, but you'll get over it in time. While you're healing, work on things that help you feel confident in yourself -- confidence is sexy. When you're feeling on your game again, it will show, and some great guy will be attracted to you and ask you out. Take care of yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): this is going to sound sort of dumb but it got me through a rough breakup. whenever you feel a flood of tears coming on, jump in the tub and take a long hot shower. its really soothing to be able to cry yourself out and then calm yourself down submerged in steam and water 3
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (26 July 2007):
 Do things you love to do, and keep yourself occupied. These are the best ways to take the sting out of being dumped. It's not something you are going to find easy anyway, and it will take time, but do all you can to help yourself until you feel better.
It's easier said than done of course, believe me, I understand. I was dumped 1 month ago today, and I'm still in a lot of pain, but remember, everyone is different.
Best of luck. You're going to be alright.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (25 July 2007):
I recommend lots of ice cream and a big bubble bath. It hurts when you get dumped, it's something that happens to us all at times and it makes you feel terrible. But take kenny's advice...go out and have fun and try not to think about it too much.
Big hugs
Aunty Em xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): Aww its horrible being dumped isnt it! Just think...everyone gets dumped...and if he doesnt want you...you're better off without him, it makes you free to start the fun all over again of searching for a new man! ;-) Just try n keep smiling...spend lots of times with your friends, they'll always make you feel better. dont listern to soppy songs, or anything that is slow and sad...keep active...make urself look irresistable so that you can think to yourself...'Just look what he's missing ;-)' Best of luck hun!!! Have a look at my question if u can pleaseeeeee xxx
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reader, kenny +, writes (25 July 2007):
 Being dumped is something that has happened to us all at some point in our lives. You feel like the world has just ended, that you will never meet anyone else.
What i can tell you is that these feelings don't last. In a week or so you will be back to your normal self. Go out with your mates have fun, enjoy yourself and soon you will meet a boy who sweeps you off yor feet, probably when you least expect it.
Good luck x
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