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I've had my heartbroken and have decided not to fall in love for a while. How do I avoid falling in love?

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Question - (1 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay?? i juss had my heart broken..and im going to tell you that i do not want to fall in love agian for a while! until im older..my ex still talks to me, nd i start to like him..then this other guy is talking to me..and i forget about my ex,and start to like the other guy other then my ex..i want to protect my feelings! i dont want to fall in love! so any advice not to fall for guys..

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (2 October 2007):

rcn agony auntDon't put yourself in positions where boys would be easier access to your feelings.

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A female reader, laced United States +, writes (1 October 2007):

Stay busy. You are making a very wise choice to protect your heart right now. Think of things you have wanted to do, or learn about...get some good exercise each day and watch what you are eating...get plenty of water, and protein. take care of yourself right now, that is the most important person in your life.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (1 October 2007):

kenny agony auntJust have a break from relationships for a while. I went through a bit of a rough patch a while back and im kind of having a break from dating myself. To be honest im kind of enjoying the single life, and when im ready i will start dating again. So tell yourself that you want to put dating on ice for a while, go out have a laugh with your mates, do what you like. Sure chat and have a laugh with guys, even go out for a drink with them, but keep it light, and don't get into anything heavy untill you are good & ready.

Hope this helps x

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (1 October 2007):

There is no immunity against falling in love. But, self control can stop it from getting too far. Don't do any touching in an intimate manner.

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