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He's moved on and now I can't get over him! Help!

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Question - (1 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i honestly dont know how to get over him. Hello everyone! i have a big problem, i went out with this boy bla bla bla and he told me hed never hurt me ans this other shit. Like a fool i believed him, well he found someone else just after being broken up with me for 3 days. She wore his jacket, the thing i wore for i dunno mabey a month! im so depressed, i have guys that would date me and stuff so im not ugly by any means. i just dont know how to leave my first love! he meant everything to me and i fall in love way to fast, i gave him my heart and he gave me hell. how do i cope with the fact that he dosent want me anymore='(

xox thank you

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A female reader, Ask_HanBan United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2007):

Ask_HanBan agony aunthey,

i'm in the same boat as u at this moment in time.

it hurts doesnt it? like this big pang in your heart and everything around youi reminds you of the time you and him were together?

well dont cry and dwell about it because if he moved on then you shopuld too.

best bet is, eat chocolate, read loads of romance novels that are so unrealistic and repeat to yourself, "plenty of fish in the sea...plent of fish in the sea" untikl you get it stuk in your brain that he isnt worth it

good luk, wb and tell me how its going

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (1 October 2007):

kenny agony auntI know its hard, what with him being your first love, you feel like the pain is never going to go away. Well with the benefit of hindsight i can tell you that things will get better. Time heals all wounds, you have got to pick yourself up dust yourself down and move on and treat this as a chapter in your life, a memory to look back on. get out there & enjoy your young life, have a laugh with your mates, have a wild time. Sooner or later you will meet someone else, probably when you least expect it.

Hope this helps you & good luck xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007):

hi dear...dont b so sad....i hve gone to a lot of hell....i know its hard today but with time evrything will b fine...just try n keep yrself busy....n never trust dis guy again....if he has dumped u once,if got a change he will dump u 100 times...go ahead...learn to smile n hide yr tears...i wish good luck for u...take care

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (1 October 2007):

You are getting way too intimate with a guy before you really get to know him. Slow down your charms girl.

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