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writes:I am still with my boyfreind after 6 years..however I still have not met his parents, he has been abusive towards me and I have seen a girl come out of his house twice he says she come to get somthing but I dont beleive that. He doesnt work and I pay for eveything? what do you think I should do because I have had enough. Reply to this Question
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reader, xxLucyxx +, writes (8 December 2009):
xxLucyxx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI left my boyfriend 6 months ago after a 6 year abusive relationship. However I met this other guy, I went to his apartment (and you know......) however he made me feel so special. After that I got really clingy with him always called and txted him all the time, obviously he got fed up and in the end I had 2 delete his number purley my decision. I finally got over him, but he has recently txt me, so I met him again (and you know...)however this time I didnt txt or ring him after that, but he still txts me to ask me how I am and stuff. However I have just found out that his ex girfriend is pregnant. I cried but I dont know why. I think I have mixed feelings. Do you think I should remain friends or cut contact with him completely? Thanks for your help!
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reader, lexilou +, writes (3 August 2008):
 It isnt easy to leave this kind of relationship but once you do you wish you had done it sooner.
It's time to tell him you have had enough and that its over, if he is betraying you and abusing you now it will only get worse x
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (3 August 2008):
 The other two Aunts above gave you fantastic advice. I know its hard but you really have got to walk away from this relationship as soon as possible. I think that you deserve so much better that this, you are worth so much more. He does not respect you, is abusive torwards you, and does not contribute to anything. Invariably people like this never change so unless you leav now its going to go on and on. Leave now, just walk away from the whole thing, you need to find a good honest guy that will work together with you, and treat you with the love and respect that you so rightly deserve. There are good guys out there, but until you leave you will never find out.
Wishing you all the very best, please mail me if you want to talk.
take care, and good luck x
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (3 August 2008):
 Hi Hunny
Im going to be blunt its time you left and let this person get on with his selfish life...Abusing you by what you have said cheating although that cant be a for sure but I do belive it a big possibility hunny..You pay for everything he has not got to do a bloody thing has he...YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THIS!!!!!!Sweetheart leave heal yourself from this awfull experience......
http://www.selfesteem4women.com/index.php
I cant find my other site but this is an attachment from it, its a brilliant site to help you love in all kinds of ways...DO NOT PUT UP WITH ANY ABUSE EVER!!!!!!If you need a chat message me hunny Ive been there I'll help you as much as I can hunny but you must leave and not look back to start the healing, He isnt worth you, YOU ARE WORTH SO MUCH MORE THAN THIS..TAKE CARE WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Teresab +, writes (3 August 2008):
 Hi, I am sorry to hear you are in a abusive relationship. I can relate to you well, as i once was in a relationship where my x had a string of affairs, also he would put me down and hit me when he drunk. It took a lot for me to leave, but when i did, i managed to pull myself up and move on. Please trust me when i tell you this, if he is abusive now, he will always be, leave him, start to feel special, see a trained councilor and start valuing yourself again. Relationships are about working together, respecting one another and feeling special.
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