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writes:I'm 18 and i have a problem and i need help. well in the past i had this one guy that i gave blow jobs to and now that im in a relationship i have nothing else to give because i love the person im with. so one day they asked me to come over but i alread knew wut they wanted so i made an excuse to get out of it and than i just broke it to them that i want to be faithful and just stop and he got so mad and but i told him im sure he can get it from any other girl but he told me he like when i do it though and i got a lot of that when i gave bj but anyways how do i not give in to him?plus he got a big one and its like man i want it but i know i cant, how do i get over this urge and just keep my word to no?also i had another that i messed with since 8th grade which i am a freshman in college now but till this day he still tries to get me and i keep telling him no and i only did it one time but i got him off me by telling my boyfriend so he stopped for now.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (18 November 2009):
I'm with Jayney on this one, it's hard to believe that this is even for real.
It's really not that hard to ignore someone after you've told them no, especially if they just want you to come over for bj's. That's just weird to me, and if that's how you value yourself to be known as the girl who gives bj's, then you kind of had this coming and need to learn some self respect. When you supposidly get an urge to give bj's (which I've never heard of before in my life) then you have a boyfriend there to satisfy that urge.
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reader, Elainey  +, writes (18 November 2009):
I don't really understand what you are saying either. Anyway, just learn to stand strong in yourself! If you don't want to do it just tell yourself you MUST NOT DO IT! Believe in what mental strength and verbal recitation can help you grab some self-discipline.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (18 November 2009):
 Your writing is hard to follow and understand. Please forgive, but the English language can be written clearly. It is difficult for me to tell with whom you are, or have been giving the blow jobs, but if your new boyfriend wants oral and knows that you are experienced, who can blame him?
Any relationship with him will probably not last, but you are very young and possibly not ready to establish a lasting, meaningful relationship. Many girls enjoy giving blow jobs, although it is only about sex and rarely leads to a lasting relationship. You say to want to do it. You can focus sucking mainly on the head, which should suffice if he is too large for deeper penetration.
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reader, Jayney Y  +, writes (18 November 2009):
 Is this post even for real?
Of course he got angry. Not too many women are stupid enough to go 'round giving free blowjobs to any bloke whenever they demand it.
For goodness sake get a grain of self-respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2009): UM HELLO!!! You do not give into the "URGE" by simply not going over there!!!
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