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41-50,
anonymous
writes:what do i do next , iam married with 2 chldren but i have been seeing someone else who is also in relationship ,. but i have fallen for him and cant get him out of my mind. but when iam with him its so comfortable and i fancy him we have slept together a few times but not for months.he says he likes me and fancies me but i dont know whats going on and when i mention it he just says its awkward (we work together as well)but he still wants to see me. and i dont want to finish it coz he does make me happy somtimes
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): you were just his f*ck buddy. he wants nothing more from you since you have already given it to him. next time think of that gold band on your 3rd left hand finger when you get the urge to commit adultery again. maybe, even think of the 2 innocent souls you are destroying. but then you know you won't will you. well, get ready for nothing. because in the end you have amounted to nothing.
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (5 July 2009):
 He is getting free sex without commitment, enjoying your infatuated attention and knows your hooked and unlikely to leave. So expect his continuing smile, a wink in his eye and that bright smile turned up at one side, as he will continue to encourage you for as long as it takes you to work out what he is up to.
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reader, BabyKiins  +, writes (5 July 2009):
I think you should think about your kids and husband. Ask yourself this "Do I love my husband? If I love him, how can I cheat on him? Am I only enjoying the rush and excitement from cheating? Is it worth losing my husand over? Does this co-worker really care about me, or is he just interested in getting in my pants? What will my children think is they find out mommy and daddy split because mommy couldn't be honest with her husband and herself?" Honestly, cheating is disgusting. I'm a sixteen year old girl, a junior in highschool, been dating my boyfriend for a short two years, and never would I cheat on him. If I ever felt like another man was worth losing my current relationship over, I'd tell my boyfriend, and breakup with him, like he deserves, so he can move on, instead of wittnessing his lover cheating on him. If you love your husband, then discontinue this reltionship with your co-worker, its deffinetly not worth it. Plus, your career is at risk, dating a co-worker is deffinetly against the rules, so, in the economys current state, you want to keep your job. This is a decison you need to make yourself, you're the adult. You know right from wrong.
Katie
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