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writes:Well this guy friend I've had for a few years has always liked me, and has always treated me so nice....He's always told me how much he likes me and how much he cares about me....I've never really given him that chance because I knew that he was great and something about that scared me....that it could turn out to be something really serious.....well about a couple weeks ago i saw him after a while and this rush of feelings came through and i started to really fall for him and the amazing person he is....Unfortunately ever since this happened he's calling me less....calling me back hours later.....not making time for me, etc......I told him to just be honest about how he feels and he says he feels the same....its been a couple weeks now and this is not the same person i've known these past few years.....what should i do?....i am so hurt.....i just didn't expect this from, especially of all people, him........... Reply to this Question
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reader, sweetheart1nonly +, writes (17 November 2007):
Girl, I understand what you are going through cos I am also going through the same thing now. This guy I recently met after all this while trying to get at me and suddenly after we started going out, he's changed and doesnt call me often, I havent really gotten over it myself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): hey,i just want you to know that i have the same thing happening to me ( you are not the only one).bye!
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reader, missmanda  +, writes (14 November 2007):
 The best suggestion I can give you is ask him to go coffee or maybe lunch and tell him how you feel. Ask him what he wants. Be blunt. Pretty much say do you want to be with me or not. It gets harder the longer you let it go on, and from experience. if he lets it drag on, walk away.
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