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He acts about satisfying only his pleasures during sex.

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Question - (14 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 November 2007)
A female South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am scared at what i am becoming. My boyfriend is so lazy that when we have sex he only wants to climax himself only. It has been such a long time since ive last climaxed and it is making me turn to a wierdo. I am now masturbating myself every second i get and it is making me ill. I dont want to cheat on him but i think that this will be my last resort.

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (14 November 2007):

hello1 agony auntplay fire with fire, like the poster below me said, don't satisfy him. You need to tell him how your feeling though, admit your tempted to cheat because of this and if that dosen't change he's mind then he isn't the man for you.

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (14 November 2007):

sexi agony auntHi

Your bf needs to realize that a relationship is a give and a take. If he isnt willing to satisfy you then you shouldnt satisfy him, it is as simple as that.If your bf wants to be selfish then maybe you should consider getting out of that relationship and getting into one where you have what you are looking for. I know that a relationship isnt about sex but it is part of it. If he isnt willing to give you what you are looking for then maybe you should look for it elsewhere.

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007):

Dont have sex with him at all and when he asks why tell him. Honesty is the policy.Tell him how it makes you feel and tell him you are going to buy a vibrator. For some reason most men hate the idea of that and will put more effort in for sure. x

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