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writes:I've caught my wife secretly wearing my clothing. At first she denied she had been doing it. When I pressed her and told her I saw her through the crack in the door of the bedroom she spat in my face. Now she openly wears my clothes around the house. I've asked her to stop it but she refuses. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): let her wear anything of yours she wants, My wife gets extreamly turned on if I wear a pair of her baggier jeans whitch are quite tight on me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): The day my wife "spits in my face" is the same day she becomes my ex wife.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): what do you mean wearing your clothing?? is it you underware or your shirts? most men think its great that there girl or wife wears their boxers and/or shirt to bed?? if its your shirts and boxers whats the big deal?? if its your underwear-if you are talking whitey tightys then thats a problem!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008):
I wear my Fiance's clothes all the time! I wear his boxers around the house, and usually wear his boxers and one of his tshirts in bed! Nearly everyone I know lets thier girlfriend / wife wear thier clothes. Men like it. Maybe there is something more to this?
You should let go of your problem with her wearing your clothes, and ask her why she likes wearing them. She will tell you that she feels comfy in them and perhaps smell of you. It shows that she is comfortable with you! Its pretty personal to wear mens clothes, so I would be happy she is happy and comfortable enough to share something like this and be comfortable to show this to you.
You need to understand why you dont want her to do it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): I hope this is a joke right.I am not very experienced.I love wearing my husband's clothes too.
Dear Aunts,
Thanks for making me feel normal.:-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): Does your wife wash, iron or buy your clothes. If she dose that's maybe why she is angry and spat at you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): Please don't ever tell anyone else that you have a problem with this. You present as aged 36-40 years old (overage) and currently living in the UK. If anyone finds out that you have a problem with this, they will make fun of you, because it's normal for women to like wearing their husbands clothes. Your views are very strange to me, that's why your wife is angry and rebels....
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (9 December 2008):
 Many men love seeing their woman wearing a pair of their boxers/briefs and a teeshirt or a long sleeved shirt being worn around the house or even to bed. You should be elated to know that MANY MEN seem to find it SEXY. It doesn't mean she is gay, or that she wants to tick you off by doing it. It could be she is trying to get you to notice her more. Maybe she just finds them comfy! Perhaps she ALREADY KNOWS that some guys really find it sexy and ATTRACTIVE as well.
Throw out your old inhibitions and go with the flow. Try not to be so serious about what she is wearing and just have fun with it. 8-)
God Bless,
Blue_Angel
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (9 December 2008):
 Spitting in your face is the problem here. As for wearing your clothes, I wear my boyfriends clothes all the time!! They're bigger, more comfortable. In fact, I'm typing this to you in my boyfriends sweatpants and they are GLORIOUS. Much more comfortable than my everyday wear.
But if she spat in your face, well that's just completely disrespectful and shows more about the real problem in your marriage. It sounds like a bitter one to me.
As long as she's washing your clothes and not leaving them dirty all over the house, you should relax about her getting comfortable, but definitely talk to her about that spitting. Find out why she gets so angry, perhaps it's the way that you approach her with problems. She is defensive.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): As far as I know it's reasonably acceptable for a woman to wear mens clothing. They wear trousers and shirts etc as a matter of routine. Just make sure she washes them when she takes them off - and demand that they be ironed properly before putting them back in the wardrobe.
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