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writes: My boyfriend kinda doesn't notice me most of the time. I don't know if its just that he doesn't like me or something else. I wonder all the time if he even thinks about me at all. We been together for almost 3 months and haven't even been on a date. Is that bad? Does it mean he doesn't want to be with me or is he embarrassed to be seen out in public with me....I know I'm very pretty, but if he asked me to be his girlfriend shouldn't he at least take me to the movies?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2005): Tell him how you feel..tell him you feel a night out or in together might be nice once a week or something just because you are together doesnt mean you should put less effort into the relationship and youve got to make him see that.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (12 October 2005):
 I don't get this at all. "He kinda doesn't notice me most of the time" and then the "We been (sic) together for almost 3 months and haven't even been on a date." are both mind-boggling. I think you can walk away from this relationship and find someone who will pay some attention to you. I doubt if he'll even notice.
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reader, LucidCupid +, writes (12 October 2005):
I could have gleaned alot more from this situation if you'd stated your ages,but it seems you're both in a relationship just for the sake of,well,being in a relationship.You both need to sit down and ask each other what you want from each other.Has he ever told you that he loves you?There seems to be a major lack of communication between you,and these questions you are raising are just going to eat away at your own sense of self-worth.If you genuinely care about him,you need to initate some communication.What's wrong with YOU asking HIM out on a date?It is the 21st century,and quite common for the female to take the lead these days!Good luck.
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