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writes:I've been separated almost a year and i have been having sex with the ex on and off. However, it has been almost 3 months no sex. I have met someone 3 weeks ago that i really like. My ex wanted to have sex last night and i had no desire too. Is that a sign that i'm letting go of the ex and starting to have feelings for the new man in my life???? I have been trying to let go for a long time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): You knew that one day you would meet someone so it is always good to make breaks clean and not go back for sex, then you wouldnt have times like this. but it does sound like he is finally going to be pushed into the background. But how will he take that? something that you need to sort out in the future. Hope you have met someone great.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (20 May 2008):
 Hi
Certainly sounds like it. And if i was you, i wouldn't try analysing it, i would just quit the going nowhere sex with the ex and give the new guy a proper chance. I bet he would be gutted if at some point he found out the ex was still on the scene, and it would be a shame to mess up the start of what could become a meaningful relationship.
If you were scared of being alone and thats why you kept the ex on the back burner, you know now you dont need to.
Good luck with the new guy.
C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): It sure looks so to me. Your sexual interest in your ex has decreased, you met someone else that you like and want to spend time with.... Whatever, your moving on in life and are no longer available for sex with your ex. Good luck, I hope things go well.
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