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writes:hi my name is Allan.i have a problem and i want to find some help... well me and my gf have been together for almost 3 years now. we have a son together. but my problem is everyday its like pulling teeth to get her to talk to me. she tells me shes busy so she cant talk. i live by myself and she lives with her family(which hate me) i love her but i think something is going on. we have been though some hard times like i have left 3 different times and we get back together. but what should i do???? i am lost. the other problem i have is she wont let me see my son unless its on her time.. someone please help me
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 January 2010):
Well, this is one of those times where you now have to really think about what you want from all this. First of all, as the father, you have the right to see your son and it doesn't just have to be on her time, so perhaps look towards a lawyer about it, even if it's just for advice on what rights you have. As for your girlfriend, it could be that her family are poisoning her against you, or it could be that she thinks it's over. Whatever it is, I think you need to make a very clear decision about whether you want to be with her or not. If yes, start seeing about moving her in. If no,end it and look towards you son, who will need you in his life. You have to be a bit tough here, for your sake and your son.
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