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*ola2010
writes:i have known tthis guy for nearly a year we were like best friends and we have recently started dating. we literally speak on the fone for more then 6 hours a day. before we got together we were very close however recently i have started getting very suspicious of him. i asked him for his myspace password once and he dident want to give it to me he gave it to me after half an hour and there were no messages . also he chaged his pasword very quik after he gave it to me and i hacked into his account, he got very offended and said that he needs his own privacy, he also said that we should cool down with being on the fone to each other so much. because thats how problems are starting. i know i done wrong. what does this mean.. he says he doen not want to end it but wants to cool it down.. and his fone has recently started being on call waiting.. what does this mean and should i acept it
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reader, lola2010 +, writes (10 January 2010):
lola2010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalso i would like to add something else he is very protective over his phone and will never let me go through it. and also he told me one nigh that he was on the phone to his cousin however i found out that he was not. why is he lying ? :(
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reader, lola2010 +, writes (10 January 2010):
lola2010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much for your reply i totally understand wht you mean. am i will give him space. however the only reason i start geting like this is because i got a friend of myne to chat him up not long ago and he told her he was single and was going along with it. after i confronted him he said he knew all along it was me. which seems very unlikely..he currently adds women he does not know on myspace which i do not understand and i had to tell him to change his status from single and now it does not reveal his relationship status.. please any replies would help i try talking to him and he just thinks am being paranoid over nothing :( help
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 January 2010):
It means you were a little too curious. He is allowed his own privacy, because the idea of trust is that someone can have a private account, someone can go out, someone can join a club and meet friends without the other being suspicious or too curious, because there is supposed to be trust that nothing is going on. Even when you hacked into his account, was there anything there? Probably not, or you would have said. I know you're not a bad woman or anything like that, but I can tell you that from a male's perspective, it would be a bit scary if a woman who you just started dating hacked into your account, even if you had known her as a friend for years. He's cooling it because he's feeling a little untrusted, and probably hurt that you breached his trust. Give him time, and he will come around. Also, it might well be worth really apologizing or him. If you ever suspect someone of cheating, you must have facts before anything else. I don't think he is at all, I just think he's unnerved that you've hacked into his account. All you can do is tell him you're sorry and that you'd like a second chance to get his trust back. Hopefully he'll listen. I think he will, or he would have broken it off by now.
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